The Right to Ones Own Fate

All family members bear their own fate which belongs only to the single individual.
Only that one person can life their life – however short, problematic or difficult it may be.
Everybody has to take their responsibility for whatever they have done or haven’t done.
The reality of ‘what already is’ must be seen and respected.


Often family members take over responsibilities that were not theirs trying to take the load off other members to make their burden easier. Or family members put responsibilities on others that are actually their own.
Children, for example, on an unconscious level often do not allow themselves to live a happier life than their parents or other family members they are loyal to.


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