WHO AM I?

Dear ,

The inspiration for this newsletter came through one the participants that joined my last workshop “A Date with my Inner Child”. It was such a beautiful realization that I simply had to share it with you.

One of the exercises we did, was to sit in front of a mirror and meet our inner child through our eyes. Just sitting there and looking in our own eyes, not our hair, not our nose, not whatever part of us, only connecting to ourselves through our eyes. Before this exercise I played the song “True colors” and I invited everyone to find their true colors within themselves.

Of course, there was space for sharing the experiences after the exercise and one participant said: “All of a sudden, I could see the whole universe in my eyes. And although on the one hand it was such a beautiful experience, on the other hand it brought up the question “who am I?” and that was scary."

I think this is a question that many of us are asking and trying to find out through all kinds of different paths.

But in that very moment of the workshop suddenly, the answer was so clear: “I am A universe” – and maybe we could even say “I am THE universe”. Both feels right for me as it feels there is no difference.

Can we ever know universe? Of course not, as we are not able to know something that is infinite. So if inside of each of us is a universe or if we ourselves are a universe – is it ever possible to get to know ourselves to the extent be able to define who we are? Of course not!

And with this insight the search of knowing who we are becomes an infinite and futile endeavor. It is always directed to a result, to the one and final answer, to expectations. And whatever we discover will not bring us happiness and peace.

As universe is ever changing and yet always staying the same, such are we. So, what if we changed our perspective? If we just looked with an open, curious, and excited inner posture at this universe that we are?

We would see our beauty, our endlessness, our light and our shadow. We would understand that today we are already different from what we were yesterday. And that tomorrow again there can be a new me, if we allow it and don’t hold on to rigid ideas and expectations. Not by trying to change ourselves, but by discovering every day a bit more whilst acknowledging and agreeing to the ultimate impossibility to find an answer to “who am I”.

There is a German children’s song that says “May makes everything new and your soul fresh and free” – so may this month free you from expectations and allow you to discover the wonder of the universe within you.

In the spirit of love and reconciliation

Ursula

This is what happens in May

 

I can’t wait to start the

NEW BASIC TRAINING COURSE

on the 4th of May with a wonderful group of amazing souls that will go together on a yearlong common journey to themselves and their roots whilst learning all about the basics of family constellations, the orders of love and helping and much more.

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Another highlight is the

RETREAT “HEALING FROM WITHIN”

(May 21st to May 26th).

My student and dear friend Dumitrita and I are co-creating this special healing space for everyone who is ready to join with an open heart, to reconnect, to let go and to discover their special place in this world. You can be sure of a unique experience as we put all our heart and love in preparing the space for you.

If you decide to join last minute and get one of the last spaces – follow this link.

 

 

And a lot more is happening in June

 

“The power of the genogram in our work with clients”

This is a FREE online workshop  that I will hold on June 6th for Constellators International

If you are interested please follow THIS LINK – you will find the information on the page.

 

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“The Orders of Helping”

On three consecutive Tuesday evenings (June 20th, June 27th and July 4th) I am once more offering this online seminar which has been a huge learning experience in the past for participants from all different paths.

Spaces are limited, so if it resonates, follow  THIS LINK

 

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Family Constellation Weekend “New Beginnings” in Cluj-Napoca

 

On June 23rd, 24th and 25th we will have another long constellation weekend in Cluj-Napoca. If you want to be part of this deep healing experience, you can register through THIS LINK

 

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Family Constellation Weekend “Everything can change” in Malta

On June 30th, July 1st and July 2nd I am looking forward to travel again to Malta and meet my beloved tribe there. Follow THIS LINK to register and allow change to happen.

 

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If you cannot join any of these workshops but would like to have your constellation in a group setting, you can choose an ONLINE constellation workshop. If this resonates, get in touch with me. I am happy to organize this for you as soon as there are two issue-holders interested.

1to1 Healing Sessions

Due to the many events, there are only a few spaces left in the months of May and June.

If you consider a personal session, please get in touch as soon as possible through this link 1TO1 HEALING SESSIONS

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Any questions you might have, please feel free to contact me.

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Thank you for your trust and for allowing me to be part of your life journey

In the spirit of love and reconciliation,

Ursula

 

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Recently I was invited to AN INTERVIEW about my work, family constellations and my place in this world by two amazing women from USA, Lauren Hubele and Christine Terrell.

 

It is part of a project to gather women from all different paths who share their knowledge, wisdom and insights.

 

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